15-year-old Danny Herrera and his girlfriend were crossing the street one evening in October when a driver failed to yield and plowed into them. The two went up over the car, resulting in a dislocated knee for Herrera and a concussion for his girlfriend.
This kind of accident is all too common, and our response is often the same. We curse distracted drivers and our hurry-up culture that prioritizes the fast movement of vehicles over pedestrian safety. We storm city hall calling for necessary changes to pedestrian infrastructure to keep people safe. We vilify the driver, calling for their license or better testing.
Something, anything to stop these kinds of accidents.
But Herrera’s response was completely uncommon.
He stormed city hall and approached the podium on his crutches to speak up during citizen comments. But instead of yelling for action from city leaders or scolding bad drivers, Herrera simply said thank you. He was grateful for the outpouring of support from the community and the actions of first responders.
I’m absolutely floored that anyone in that situation would express gratitude. Herrera was run over by a car, yet he says thank you.
Some might see that as weakness. I see it as an incredible depth of character.
Gratitude is uncommon today. Even though we have a major national holiday named for it, we don’t actually do a lot of giving thanks. Sure, we say thanks when it’s required or expected. Thanks for bringing my food. Thanks for doing your job. Thanks for giving me what I deserve.
But gratitude should be way beyond requirement or expectation. We should be radically grateful, like a 15-year-old accident victim who says thank you.
That’s not always easy when you’re overworked, overloaded, and overwhelmed. Working in the church can sometimes wear you down, and it’s hard to be thankful, let alone radically thankful.
The Bible tells us to “give thanks in all circumstances” (1 Thessalonians 5:18, NIV), because that attitude of gratitude can shift our mood and help us be better instruments of God’s love on earth, even when things aren’t going well—like getting run over by a car.
Be thankful, beyond turkey and potatoes. Whether you’re in an amazing church where everything comes together, or if you’re scratching and fighting for a coherent strategy—find a way to be thankful.
Look for something every day that you can be thankful for. Keep a list. It’s easy to be thankful at Thanksgiving, but give it a week, when the deadlines pile up and you’re feeling the holiday stress. Those are the hard circumstances where it’s so vital to find a sense of gratitude.
That’s exactly when we need to “give thanks to the Lord,” as it says over and over again in the Psalms.
- Perspective: During this busy time of the year, let gratitude move you from chaos to calm.
- Be thankful: We’ve got 18 things you can be thankful for. OK, that one’s kind of tongue-in-cheek. Here are 10 more serious things to be thankful for.
- Thank you: Thanks to you, church communicator. Here are 10 reasons we’re grateful for church communicators.
- All year long: Make gratitude a marketing strategy, not just during Thanksgiving.
- Social graphics: There’s still time to encourage your congregation to be grateful with this pack of five free social graphics.
Kevin D. Hendricks wrote this originally at Church Marketing Sucks .